You Are Important

I invite you to think of something about yourself that you like.

What do you do well? What do you bring to this world that nobody else can?

I used to falsely believe that I had nothing valuable to share with the world. I had lots of issues stemming from a false narrative about myself.

Where this narrative came from is complicated. It came from society, school, and other people close to me.

Maybe you were raised in an environment that didn’t highlight the gifts you bring to this world.
I would like to suggest a different vision for you. I invite you to look at the possibility that you are unique in a way that is valuable to this world.

I remember this when I go to Disney World, and they ask me to place my finger on the scanner to enter the park. Out of the millions of people that have visited Disney World over the years, the system knows that it is me that is entering the park. I feel valued when they let me through. I know I am unique.

Could you feel that way in your everyday life? Are there ways that you can embrace the gifts you bring, and begin feeling good about how important you are?

Here are some suggestions that may help you to see yourself as important:

1. Write down three things that you do well. What is it about that skill that you do well?

2. Think of the people who are special to you. Remember that you have a special place in their heart too. Nurturing relationships are reciprocal. You have an important role.

3. Ask those close to you why they love you. They will tell you. You will be glad you asked.

4. Ask your Creator to reveal to you what you can do to see yourself as important. Ask for these revelations, and they will be revealed.

We are engaged in a process. If you don’t feel important today, maybe you will tomorrow. I want you to know that there are people in your life who think you are amazing, and who want you around. I hope you seek those people out and surround yourself with people who will support your growth.

You deserve all the love that is coming to you today. Embrace it. Take it in. You are important to the world, and I’m glad you are here.

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